The Magic of Thinking Big: Elevating Your Life’s Aspirations

Abel Dorsey
4 min readApr 19, 2024

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Dreams are the seeds of reality. The bigger the dream, the more breathtaking the life. This is the heart of a powerful philosophy: the magic of thinking big. For every student stepping into the threshold of 10th or 11th grade, you’re at a crossroads of life where dreams can start taking shape.

To start this journey, let’s explore the question, “Why think big?” Consider this: Small thinking leads to small actions, which lead to small results. On the flip side, big thinking leads to big actions, and big actions lead to significant results. It’s a simple equation, but its truth is profound and often transformative when put into practice.

1. What Does ‘Thinking Big’ Mean?
Thinking big doesn’t mean just aiming for becoming a celebrity or a billionaire — although it could. It’s about not limiting yourself. It’s about setting goals that push you beyond your current limits, whether in your academics, personal projects, or social endeavors. It’s about looking at a math problem and not just seeing a number but envisioning real-world applications that could change the way we live. It’s about reading a book in your English class and thinking about how you could write a story that touches hearts similarly.

2. Shifting Your Perspective
The first step to thinking big is to change your perspective. Start by assessing the self-imposed limits you might have set.

Ask yourself, “What would I do if I knew I couldn’t fail?” Let this question guide your thoughts away from fear and toward potential. Begin to visualize success in your mind’s eye. Visualization is a powerful tool; athletes use it to imagine crossing the finish line, and you can use it to see yourself acing a test or giving a victorious speech in debate class.

3. The Power of Knowledge
Knowledge is a critical component of thinking big. The more you know, the more you can achieve. Dive into your schoolwork with passion. Look beyond the textbook and ask questions that pique your curiosity. When you’re working on an assignment, think about how it connects to larger concepts and the world around you. This approach will deepen your understanding and broaden your horizons, making big thoughts natural to you.

4. Overcoming the ‘Buts’
Every big thinker encounters obstacles. The most common one is internal — a voice that says, “But I can’t because…” It’s essential to recognize this voice as the guardian of the status quo and to challenge it. Replace “but” with “how.” Instead of saying, “But I can’t understand this chapter in physics,” ask, “How can I understand this chapter in physics?” This small shift can lead you to seek help, find additional resources, or dedicate more time to study, which are all actions that enlarge your capacity to succeed.

5. Setting Giant Goals
Set goals that make you reach. If you’re getting B’s, aim for A’s. If you’re shy, aim to speak up in class once a week. Let your goals stretch you and give you a direction to move in. Write them down, make a plan, and then work on that plan step by step. Remember, a goal without a plan is just a wish.

6. Surround Yourself with Big Thinkers
You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with. If you surround yourself with people who think big, their attitudes will rub off on you. Find mentors, friends, and teachers who encourage you to dream and do. Participate in clubs, sports, and activities that align with your interests and will push you to grow.

7. Embrace Failure as a Stepping Stone
Think of failure not as a wall but as a stepping stone. Every time you fail, you learn something new, and that knowledge is a step towards your goal. Thomas Edison, while inventing the lightbulb, famously said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” Persistence is a hallmark of big thinkers.

8. The Power of Attitude
A positive attitude is the fuel for big thinkers. Believe that you can, and you’re halfway there. Your attitude determines your altitude; by staying positive, you’ll maintain the energy and drive needed to continue your ascent to big achievements.

9. Taking Action
Dreams and goals are nothing without action. Start small if you need to, but start. Do one thing every day that moves you toward your big goal. Action is empowering, and it creates momentum. Before you know it, you’re not just thinking big; you’re living big.

10. Reflect and Reassess
Finally, as you work toward your big dreams, take time to reflect and reassess. Are you moving in the direction you want? What have you learned? What can you do better? This process of reflection ensures that you’re not just moving, but moving in the right direction.

The magic of thinking big is a strategy for success. It’s allows you to dream without limits and helps you put in the hard work to turn those dreams into reality. So aim high, dream big, and remember that the size of your successes will be determined by the size of your thoughts.

Now, take out a sheet of paper and write down one big dream.

Look at it every day, let it inspire you as you start your journey towards making it a reality.

If you’d like to get access to more informative content or work with me in the future, be sure to check out my website at abeldorsey.com.

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Abel Dorsey
Abel Dorsey

Written by Abel Dorsey

Best Selling Author | Network Marketing Expert | Life Coach

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